Seeing the Extraordinary in the Ordinary
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Baal Shem Tov Insights – Issue 48: Pesach
5771
Do You Believe in Miracles?
Seeing the Extraordinary in the Ordinary
Summary
People often talk about miracles. There
are firm believers that miracles happen in our lives, and firm skeptics and
non-believers. But before we discuss and debate the issue, wouldn’t it be
wise to first define the meaning of a miracle?
And what better time to do so than in this
month of Nissan, which is a time of miracles? What exactly is a miracle and
how does it play out in our lives? Are their miracles today? If yes, can we
see and experience them?
In this disarming insight the Baal Shem
Tov offers us a novel interpretation of a miracle, and in the process turns
the entire concept on its head. We learn how each of us can recognize – and
create – miracles in our lives.
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A Time of Miracles
We are now in the month of Nissan – a time
of miracles. The Jewish people experienced many miracles in this month, beginning
with their miraculous exodus from Egypt, which was accompanied by many miracles.
The very name of the month – Nissan, a
word with two Hebrew letter “nuns” – stands for “miracles upon miracles,”
a time when one can expect miracles upon miracles.[1]
Our sages tell us that Nissan is the New Year for the miraculous order (while
Tishrei is the New Year for the natural order).[2]
What better time to take a deeper look
at the meaning of miracles and how they play out in our lives.
People often talk about miracles. There
are firm believers that miracles happen in our lives, and firm skeptics and
non-believers. But before we discuss and debate the issue, wouldn’t it be
wise to first define the meaning of a miracle?
What is a Miracle?
Most of us associate a miracle with a supernatural
event – a suspension of the natural order. The parting of the sea is a quintessential
example of such a miracle. Imagine if the Atlantic or Pacific Ocean would
suddenly split into two, leaving a path in middle for humans to walk through.
Or imagine the sun stopping in the heavens for several hours. These are magical
paranormal events that defy the laws of nature and are impossible to scientifically
explain.
Such miracles require a measure of faith,
being that we don’t see them very often, if at all.
But is this the true definition of a miracle?
A New Definition
The Baal Shem Tov says that the difference
between a miracle and a natural event is only in frequency. “A miracle
is a novel event, a new thing that happens for the first time in nature. But
after it repeats itself, this too becomes nature.”
In other words, “miracle” and “nature”
are not objectively different; they are distinguished simply by our attitude.
We see something new and novel as a miracle. But if it happens consistently
– despite its miraculous personality – we call it “nature.” Our fickle personalities
then find this “natural” occurrence as common and monotonous and we go off
seeking a novelty, a new thing, anything that seems different and will turn
us on.
Truth be told, we don’t really understand
the “laws” of nature. Yes, nature operates according to a design that we have
come to accept as normal. But while this makes life more predictable and,
therefore, comfortable, it doesn’t necessarily make it any more understandable. When
we know, for instance, that the sun will rise tomorrow morning, we feel a
sense of order and control; but we still have no idea as to why nature was
created this way. Just because we label something “natural” doesn’t mean that
we understand it any better than we understand a “miracle.”
The difference between a miracle and an
act of nature is only in frequency. Imagine that the sun were to rise only
once in our lifetime. Everyone would rush to see it, proclaiming it the most
miraculous event they had ever witnessed. But since we experience a sunrise
every day, we see it as just another ordinary part of our lives.
We dismiss it as a “natural” unexceptional
event, though in truth it is simply a miracle repeating itself again and again.
This is an inherent human trait – we become so
accustomed to something that, no matter how extraordinary it may be, we take
it for granted. We constantly need a new rush of excitement to arouse our
interest.
Is there a greater miracle than life itself?
Take the human breath: A person living to 80 will take over 700 million breaths
in a lifetime! Is it not a miracle that we are able to exhale and inhale hundred
of millions of times throughout life without fail?!
When we visit someone struggling, G-d forbid,
to breathe, we suddenly realize the miracle involved. But in our own lives,
since we breathe again and again, it loses for us the miraculous touch. Due
to its regularity we dismiss it – if we think about it at all – as… “nature.”
Is life itself a miracle? What are the
odds of 75 trillion cells in the human body working hand in hand, and allowing
us our health?!
No wonder King David remind us at the end
of Psalms: Every soul praises G-d. On every breath we take we should be praising
G-d.
Miracles, then, are all around us. They
are lost on us because we see them happening so “regularly” and “consistently,”
but that doesn’t make them less of a miracle.
Miracles abound everywhere. We just have
to pause and appreciate them.
A miracle then is actually seeing the extraordinary in
the ordinary and the supernatural in the natural. Recognizing
that no matter how many times a miracle repeats itself,
the miracle does not weaken (even if our interest does).
Do You Believe in Miracles?
Now, based on this new definition of miracle,
ask yourself: Do you believe in miracles?
Do we even need faith to appreciate the
miracles in our lives – in our health, in nature, in our children, in the
magic all around us?
Blake put it so well: To see a world in
a grain of sand, And a heaven in a wild flower, Hold infinity in the palm
of your hand, And eternity in an hour. But how? How can you hold infinity
in the palm of your hand? And how can you keep it there?
Prior to Blake, the Baal Shem Tov, laid
down the foundation and taught us how to see and touch the miracle: By seeing
the extraordinary in the ordinary.
Someone may say, “If I only saw a miracle,
then I would believe, then I would change my life!” What are we waiting for
– the splitting of the sea? Miracles are happening around us every moment.
Life itself is a miracle; consider for just a moment the sheer wonder of human
birth. In fact, we do often refer to birth as a miracle; why,
then, do we so easily forget that every person on earth is the product of
a miracle?
Since we are so distracted by the daily
struggle to survive, by our responsibilities and obligations, we tend to ignore
such simple facts. The very noise of life drowns out the underlying sound
of what should be most real to us. It is not that we don’t believe
in miracles; we simply stop taking the time to appreciate them. To see a miracle
means to appreciate the uncommon within the common, the extraordinary within
the ordinary.
When you can recognize the
extraordinary within the ordinary, supernatural occurrences are
not so significant. Your faith – and life – is not dependent on such
miracles, for you have a mature relationship with a reality that is higher
than yourself, and you realize that the ultimate miracle is our very existence.
Just contemplate the awesome design and
balance within any one family of the animal, vegetable, or mineral kingdom,
to say nothing of the beauty of the human body or the elegance of the solar
system. The miracle of nature is not to be found in its once-in-a-lifetime
events, but in its relentless regularity. Whereas every creation of man is
ephemeral, every part of nature is boundless, permanent, and inexplicable
– in a word, miraculous.
Yes, we can explain away many events, even
“miraculous” ones. But then again, a good mind can explain away anything.
Just as you have a choice in everything you do, you can use your mind to either
seek out the miracles in life or deny them. Only you will know the degree
of sincerity with which you are trying to understand your life and instill
it with meaning.
By looking honestly at your life, you will
recognize the miracles within nature and the miracle of nature itself.
You will recognize the divine providence in all your activities. You
will learn to appreciate the miracles of your own life – the successes you’ve
had and the very miracle of life. Thank G-d for these miracles; don’t take
them for granted.
And finally, you will realize that the
world around you is experiencing miracles within miracles, a revolution from
within. It is time to acknowledge that the world is hurtling toward redemption
– and that it is your choice and your choice alone whether to be a part of
it.
To See the Divine
Watch a beautiful sunset. Listen to a stirring
symphony. Smell a delicate fragrance. Taste a delectable wine. Touch the soft
cheek of a child. Those are our five senses at work – taking in and experiencing
the aesthetics of our universe. But what else enters through our sensory doors?
How stimulated – overstimulated – are we by the multitude of sights, sounds,
smells, tastes and touches inundating our daily interactions? And what impact
does it have on us? Are we products, perhaps even victims, of the forces seducing
our senses? Take television: Does anyone know the far-reaching effects that
visual stimulation has on our psyches? How much is it desensitizing us to
“see,” “hear” and experience the more sublime aspects of our lives – the invisible
and ethereal?
So when we observe the world around us,
the people, events and experiences of our lives, what should we be looking
for? When we are seeking a loving relationship – or standing before a person
we love – how do we assure that we are looking at the important things that
matter, and not at superficial externals? And how do we attain such perspective
when we are swamped with the endless flow of information assaulting our senses,
numbing and distorting our priorities?
This month of Nissan – and the holiday
of Pesach – provides us with the answer. In this month we have the power to
see miracles in our lives. To see the Divine in everything we do.
What does it mean to "see" the
Divine?
When we look at any particular object what
do we see? First we see the physical features of the object – its shape, color,
size and position. We may also notice its functions and the benefits they
serve. With more focus, we can discern subtle elements and other aspects that
may not have been ostensibly noticeable. Upon further study we develop a “deeper
look” at the object and learn its unique composition of elements and molecules,
and its biological and chemical makeup. Further down and in we discover its
atomic structure, which in turn is comprised of sub-atomic particles. How
far down the “rabbit hole” can we go?
Left to our own mortal resources we can
only go that far. But with help from an unexpected place we can actually come
to perceive – to see – the essence of the object, and even beyond that.
When the Kotzker Rebbe was a young child
he was once asked: “Where is G-d?” To which he replied: “Wherever you let
Him in?”
To see the divine miracle is to see the
Essence of all reality, and to recognize that this Essence is beyond all reality.
“He is the space of the universe, but the universe is not His space.” In some
ways it means to see the forest from the trees; the roots from the symptoms;
the causes from the effects.
Open Your Eyes
But to be able to open our eyes and see
the miracle – to see the inner forces that shape our outer realities – two
critical things are necessary:
1) We must leave our comfort zones and
embark on a journey away from our subjective inclinations toward transcendence.
You must travel away from your own subjective trappings and remove the immediate
pressures that block you from seeing what lies within. This includes controlling
the flow of images, sounds, tastes, touches and smells, which enter your being
and clutter your life.
2) We must dedicate our lives and pass
on this legacy to our children and generations to come – to focus not on the
means, but on the end: To look beyond the seductive distractions of surface
life and see what lies within; to search for the essence of things, rather
than react to their symptoms. To seek out the purpose of existence and turn
that purpose into the driving force of our decisions, rather than allow our
existential needs and concerns to determine the course of our lives. You need
to focus on the inner forces and the purpose of it all, ensuring that the
means that lead you there are not confused with the end goal. Too often we
get so consumed with the tools – earning a living, shopping, preparing – that
we are left with no time, energy and space for the purpose of all these tools.
Sometimes we may even forget that there is a purpose, like embarking on a
journey and then forgetting the destination.
This commitment to the higher goal, as
opposed to the means, in turn manifests in a life driven by virtue and selflessness,
rather than instant gratification and immediate needs.
Opening New Doors
Once you demonstrate your commitment to
this approach, new doors will open up from within. And then you will begin
to see the extraordinary in the ordinary. Every detail of your life begins
to burst with enormous energy. You learn to savor every sight, every sound,
every taste, every touch, every smell.
You can look at a wild flower and see a
flower, or you can see Heaven. You can listen to a bird sing and hear a song,
or hear the music of angels. You can gently caress the finger of your beloved
and touch a finger, or you can touch eternity.
A new miraculous perspective emerges in
your life, teaching you how to bridge the visible and the invisible, the sensory
and the supra-sensory – how to use your senses to reach beyond your senses
and experience new dimensions.
And above all, your new vision allows you
to release fresh energy from every experience you encounter: In a life driven
by self-interest every situation is numbed and deadened by “what’s in it for
me?” In stark contrast, a life driven by seeing the miraculous opens your
eyes, ears, taste, touch and smell to experience yourself and others in unprecedented
ways. You learn to see new things, and see old things in new ways.
Every situation then becomes an opportunity
to generate innovative power to help others and improve the world – directing
every detail of your life toward the sublime, revealing the Divine purpose
in everything, fulfilling the very objective of existence.
Miracles Are All Around Us
Miracles are all around us; we must open our eyes to see them
– The Lubavitcher Rebbe
A group of college students had a private audience with
the Lubavitcher Rebbe. One student asked the Rebbe if he
could perform miracles.
“This physical, natural world,” he explained, “ is not
a separate entity from the higher, spiritual world -- rather,
it evolved from it. And so, when someone connects
himself to the spiritual world, to G-d, he can affect things
in this physical world in a way that cannot be anticipated.
Every person is given the choice whether or not to connect
themselves to the spiritual world.
“We must make the right choice,” the Rebbe continued, “and
use all our strength to live virtuously, to introduce harmony
to everyone we meet, to encourage others to increase goodness
and defeat evil -- in effect, to make the world a better
place.”
The Rebbe concluded: “So, in essence, by inspiring
students like yourselves to go into the world and perform
good works, yes, we can perform miracles.”
Be a Miracle Maker
As we enter the miraculous Passover season we are empowered
to recognize and perform miracles in our own lives.
Let us commit to not take our lives and
gifts for granted. To see the miracle of life – the miracle in every breath
we take, in every step we make, in every grain of sand and in every fiber
of existence.
Let us stand humble and gracious before
the miracle of our lives.
And when we do, we open up news channels
that flow forth with even more abundant miraculous energies, blessing us all
with great success, materially and spiritually, all in good health, happiness
and nachas from ourselves and out families.
Happy Pesach. A celebration of the miracle.
Sources: Toldos Yaakov Yosef Parshas Tzav.
Kesser Shem Tov section 119. 256. See Sefer Hasichos 5749 vol. 1 pp. 372.
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