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Toward
a Meaningful Life with Simon Jacobson
Radio Show Transcript - January 16, 2000
Underwritten
by Ivan Stux
Mike Feder: Hello everybody. Were back
again after being bumped by the hockey or basketball game last
week. This is your host Mike Feder and were here with
Rabbi Simon Jacobson on Toward a Meaningful Life with Simon
Jacobson. It seems like years when youre not on for
one week, doesnt it?
Rabbi Simon Jacobson: Well, we can play
our own ice hockey here.
Feder: Okay, let me just jump into this
thing thats been on my mind. Something happened last weekkind
of a massive news story all over the placethat AOL merged
with Time Warner. Now, this is not just business news. Im
going to express certain fears and thoughts that I have about
this, and I hope you can shape it and discuss what you think
is going on here.
Editorials and articles are in every section of
the newspaper about thisas I said, not just the financial
section. This seems to be having some sort of massive, symbolic
effect on our whole culture. And whats happening, it seems
to me, is that everybody has this universal fear that one company,
or a few companies which seem to be merging into one large company,
are swallowing up every single company. You can already see
the results of it in some places, but basically here were
talking about communications companies.
Someone made a joke once in an editorial that
one day President Gates would do such and such.
But of course now we see that Gates is stepping aside theoretically
because his company is probably being broken up.
But yet theres a feeling that one company
or a group of companies controlled by a few individuals are
going to control absolutely everything: what you wear, what
you see, what you hear, any kind of thing that you read, what
you buy, and I think what Im getting at is that it feels
as if I, as an individual human being in society, am being completely
marginalized to the point where I think, as an individual, I
might disappear.
And I dont mean this in any way as a psychological
issue, thats a separate problem, but I wonder if other
people listening have this same feelingand Ive seen
it in editorialsthat in this modern world, with everything
being globalized and taken over by an increasingly narrow group
of people, you get the feeling that as an individual
Let me put it bluntly. There is a phrase that
you (Rabbi Jacobson) often use, and your organization uses,
which is that You Matter. Ive heard you say
that before. I get the feeling that when I read the headlines
these days, an individual human being doesnt really
matter anymore. Youre just a consumer unit now and nothing
else.
The government doesnt care about your vote.
The companies dont care what you think. You buy what they
make; you vote the way they tell you. Thats it. So I feel
like Im expressing a fear that a lot of people might share.
Jacobson: Yes, but the fear has to be broken
down into several components in order to discuss it intelligently.
In a show like this, Toward a Meaningful Life, the
key question is, how does all this bear upon our lives? What
are the consequences? What are the risks? What are the challenges
that lie ahead of each of us as individuals and as a group?
What responsibility do we as parents and as educators have,
and what responsibility does the government have?
I would break it down essentially into two types
of fears. One is the control of the flow of knowledge and information:
that whenever that is allowed to be controlled by a particular
party or group of individuals, theres always the fear
that the knowledge will not be completely free, meaning that
some individuals will choose what is relevant and what is important
for others to listen to or hear or read.
The second fear that you describe is the fear
of losing our individuality, our personalities. That weve
become, as Huxley puts it in Brave New World or George
Orwell in 1984, a type of mass society, with mass consumerism,
where individual interests are not that relevant or important.
Feder: Well, in fact, they become crimes
in these societies.
Jacobson: Right. For the collective good.
Now, speaking from somewhat of a spiritual perspective, in Jewish
mysticism, we can almost see the universe, or history, divided
into two ages: the materialistic age and the spiritual age.
I believe what were really experiencing right now is the
transitionthat were coming to the end and the edge
of the materialistic age and were entering a spiritual
age.
Feder: Do you mean that its getting
darker before the dawn? Is that whats happening here?
Jacobson: No. But Ill explain. Were
still using the old economic rules in a game thats soon
going to change entirely. The old rules -- which have prevailed
for quite some years now -- are based on a specific economic
model for capitalism, which essentially allows for a corporate
structure that leads to mergers we are witnessing. Remember,
before AOL, it was Time and Warner that merged. Now its
Time, Warner and AOL. So maybe Time, Warner, AOL and AT&T,
Yahoo, and
WEVD!
Feder: Maybe WEVD will buy all of them.
And were in on the ground floor here!
Jacobson: So the economic model that allows
for this is a model based on a materialistic age. In a sense,
whats happening is that the Internet, which is of course
very critical in this particular merger, has opened up a completely
new, exciting level of commerce, which has become international.
Global lines are being redefined or actually disappearing; where
now you have one large international mall that anyone, anywhere,
can come and access. This is giving the corporate honchos a
whole new perspective on how to play the game, but theyre
playing by the rules that go back at least a century or two
and theyre just taking it to the max.
I believe that its going to come to a point
where were going to have to create a new economic model
for a new type of world.
Feder: Its that idea of a critical
mass. So somethings going to have to approach a
point where its almost going to blow up before it changes,
right?
Jacobson: Right. Well, not blow up literally.
I think whats going to happen is that the economic equations
resulting from the old model will become so ludicrous, that
it will become obvious that we need to create a new model. We
will need to address the growing paradox that we find emerging
today, on one hand the centralization of corporate power you
describe, on the other hand, a decentralization which is unprecedented
in history how individuals can, at their will, access any information
they wish.
You can go to any library and read about anything.
You can go onto the Internet and access any information that
was once very difficult to access.
Feder: So theres more choice now
than ever.
Jacobson: So it seems like a paradox. On
one hand, centralization seems to give certain individuals the
control of the information flow. On the other hand, there is
an unprecedented free-flow of information. We dont live
in a Fascist regime where the radio waves are controlled. You
and I can say anything we want on the radio right now. We can
even challenge the corporate structure and we have a right to
do that.
So whats happening is that a real dichotomy
is being created and there is going to be a real serious tension,
including the fears you described
but I dont think
that the fear will be as its painted in Brave New World
or 1984. I think what will happen is that the masses,
the grassroots, that these mega-conglomerates want to control
and have them buy their products, are going to rebel and make
a very large statement. And that, I believe, will have to change,
on a governmental level, our economic structure of how we sell
things. Even on a basic level of how we sell things,
who controls what is sold.
Feder: These people seem to be the kind
of peopleand Im not judging them so much but just
describing themwho will eat everything that they can eat
thats in their path. Now if you dont want to be
eaten, youre going to have to stand up and say, I
dont want you to eat me. You cant just sit
there because they will consume you. And I believe that thats
the way things are. So what Im saying is that I think
there will be a battle of some sort, legal
Jacobson: Well, Im putting it into
two ages. Were ending one age but the rules are still
being played the way the economic models have been structured
for a materialistic age.
Feder: Its becoming a Darwinian jungle
world.
Jacobson: When I say a spiritual age, I
mean a world in which there is an individual search for deeper
meaning, for G-d, for purpose, that will ultimately, because
of the easy access of information, be a very loud voice. And
there will be a clash, and the economic model will have to be
redefined entirely to really address a community of individuals.
But it will be an international community of individuals.
Im trying to take a different approach from
the conventional approach, because I dont know if the
issue (or solution) here is regulation, for instance. You know,
the government can always come in and say, This is a monopoly
and therefore it undermines free commerce because the
corporation can control pricing in addition to controlling the
flow of information that were describing.
But thats called damage control. Theres
a reason that these conglomerates are being created, because
the industries are converging and the economic climate is creating
a demand for that. Time Warner has interests on the Internet.
AOL has interest in what Time Warner has to offer. So you cant
stop the flow of progress so to speak. Its logical that
if two people need something of each other theyll join
forces, just like two partners may open a business, except here
the partnership is becoming so large that it has the consequences
and the fears that you, Mike, described earlier.
But you have to remember that theyre not
being driven by some type of dictatorship type of positionthey
feel its economical: its going to ultimately make
more money for them and their shareholders to join forces rather
than stay apart.
Feder: But isnt there anything beneath
that drive that seems to be even a deeper drive?
Jacobson: We have to then assess each individual.
But I have no reason to be suspicious of someone trying to be
a Hitler here and trying to dominate the world. Obviously,
power corrupts and power is addictive and all of that. What
Im trying to say is that there are forces that are driving
them together. So regulating is one thing. But the real question
for us has to be, and thats what I would address, which
is, as individuals, what does this mean for us. What do we say
about itincluding the fears you described.
Ill put it this way. In the Code of Jewish
Law, the first line which opens the entire code of human behavior
states, Do not be ashamed of those who will mock you.
Essentially its addressing the whole issue of peer pressure,
which is one of the most powerful forces in society. Conformity.
We all have it at school. We dont want to stand out. The
popular kids dictate the standard so everyone just goes
along. Mass mentality. Why should you look differently; why
should you behave differently
conformity.
And we all struggle with peer pressure and conformity
as we grow into adults as well. You go to work and there
are certain standards there; standards that may not even be
healthy. A certain competitiveness in the marketplace often
creates a real type of dog-eat-dog attitude; survival of the
fittest. On the other hand, since were in that culture,
the question is, how do we maintain individuality in the face
of any type of mass consumerism.
Now the fact is that the media has inundated our
lives. You look at a magazine, television, newspaper, radio
much of it is controlled by those who buy advertising time
or space in those media, and they have the money to create images
that are so psychologically compelling and seductive that the
proof is in the pudding. They wouldnt have spent the money
if they werent selling products due to that advertising.
Look at the Super Bowl as an extreme example.
The Super Bowl has created an industry just to see the new ads
-- entire industries are developing ad campaigns surrounding
the Super Bowl because it has such a market share of viewers.
So what you have here is a general trend toward
that type of mind control, and the question is, what is to be
done about it? So on the one hand we can say, okay, lets
regulate the conglomerates
Feder: Break them up, scatter them
Jacobson: Scatter them so you dont
have any monopolized control. But then the argument would
be that you are really undermining economic progress, because
theres a reason that these partnerships and alliances
are being created.
The question I would raise is how can we empower
individuals so they can not just withstand this inundation but
flourish and have the best of both worlds? How can you benefit
from a large company, for example, and not lose your individuality?
That would really be the question. Because remember,
if you think this is just the case in our generation, was there
no conformity in the Roman Empire? Its just that they
didnt have technology that reached billions of people.
But they controlled their communities. Its always been
an issue in history where several individuals, either through
government or through religious or economic power, try to control
the masses.
So I think the real question is, whats happened
to us, to our souls? To blame AOL and Time Warner that they
have extinguished our souls
Feder: No, you cant accuse them of
that
Jacobson: Exactly. They are really a product
of a general system thats going a certain way, a way that
weve all always tolerated and, at best, participated in.
For example, if you or I were working as a Vice Chairman of
AOL or Time Warner or one of these companies, and they asked
us logically what we should be doing now, and you said, You
know, I vote for this merger, your vote would be based
purely on a logical, economic rationalethe same as youd
make a decision to change a job or to buy a home in a different
area that has lucrative potential. Its an investment type
of idea.
But the problem would be that youve
already become a victim because youre working in that
environment.
Feder: And you cant see the forest
for the trees.
Jacobson: Exactly. So its very difficult
to begin to preach ethics once you have a society that has essentially
created these monsters. You know, if you talk about a dictator
or a Fascist, like a Hitler, even that, without people supporting
him, he could not have risen.
But in our situation, were not dealing with
an individual evil, an individual whos an evil force,
and were not talking now about people who are so fanatical
that they think that Bill Gates is a fascist, G-d forbid. I
wouldnt even compare.
We have a world that is capitalistic by nature.
The laws of the government are controlled by publicly elected
officials. Its true that lobbying and money does control
much of the regulation, but the basics are controlled by people,
and if the people would have a very loud voice to change certain
principles, for instance, of capitalism. If you read any Marxian
thought on economic theory, the driving force is greed, to have
more money. I think the majority of Americans have always voted
for that.
Feder: Absolutely.
Jacobson: One could argue that they havent
been given the choice, and you know, they dont call it
greed, they call it success built upon the motivation that you
want more and more.
Feder: Its called greed!
Jacobson: But they wont call it greed,
theyll paint it as something that motivates people to
grow.
Feder: Enlightened self-interests?
Jacobson: I think the question is how do
we reclaim our souls? And remember, Gerald Levin and Steven
Case also have souls, and they have families. Im sure
that they try to be good to their families.
Feder: Well, Levin had that tragedy in
his family.
Jacobson: And I think that they are, in
a way, just products of the society that we, ourselves, have
created. Thats why I like the idea of looking at the two
ages we spoke about: a materialistic age
which theyve
taken to the extreme. Its almost like lawyers who come
and say, Okay, the IRS has written certain tax laws. We
will now show you every loophole possible to figure out how
to maximize your income.
And then the IRS says, Okay, were
closing another loophole. It almost becomes a cat and mouse
game, as they say, the manufacturers of speed radars for cops,
are the same manufacturers of radar detectors. And as they make
better radar detectors, they have to create a new radar, so
its an entire economy based on their own internal competition.
I think our focus should be, Mike, how does a
person, as an individual, reclaim his or her soul or control
that soul not just from conforming but to any forcesnot
just economic or corporate forces. That would be my approach,
rather than just painting the situation as an evil force where
information will be coming from two or three individuals, period.
Feder: Okay, thats a very good answer
to a stated fear and a question. Let me come back to refine
(since the answer has already been given and a search has been
pointed out) just a couple of things.
Now, the first point is, and you use the words
often, The people have to do this to bring about something.
As anybody familiar with science knows, a mass is constructed
of individual particles. Now, the people is not
one big uniform thing. The people are all of us as individuals
together. And thats whats important also that was
planned in our Constitution.
The second thing is, once upon a time, when you
didnt want to participate in the mass culture of wherever
you were, you could go someplace else. You could get on a ship,
you could emigrate, you could get on a plane. Today, theres
nowhere left. And the only place left is to retreat inside your
house or apartment to get away from this. Theres no America
to explore. There are no lands to explore anymore. Nobodys
going to outer space to find a place to go. Were all here
right now.
And I think actually whats happening is
that it is pointing to this critical switchover, from one sort
of world to another, because, in a way, theres no place
left to go. We are all boxed in here. And were either
going to have to conform to this or learn to live in this collective
way, or were going to have to move in some other direction.
Were almost being squeezed like a toothpaste tube. Do
you see what I mean?
Jacobson: That is where we travel on an
inner journey, in inner space. And that is what I mean when
I use the words reclaiming your soul. You see, your
individuality and your choices of how to live your life are
ultimately your and only your responsibility. You choose how
much television you want to watch, how many newspapers you want
to read. You pick and choose. And knowledge of all sorts
is readily available today. I agree that if we as parents just
allow our children to be swept away by the media, then we are
doing them a great injustice. But we have the power and the
control how to to educate our children and to monitor
the flow of information.
So its true that its definitely a
legitimate issue to discuss whats happening when all these
mega-conglomerates are being formed, but at the same time, the
place where we can still maneuver is the place where we always
were able to maneuver, and thats individual freedom which
is a completely internal thing.
This would be true even if the entire world were
controlled by one corporation, and Im talking about a
corporation that obviously is not a violent one (because if
its a violent one, then it threatens your life) but an
economic corporation.
Feder: Its not an inconceivable fact.
That one corporation could run everything.
Jacobson: Yes. I still think that unless
they imposed rules and laws, like in those books that we mentioned,
a human beings freedom is not dependent on what they produce.
It depends on who you are and how you see yourself.
Just as it is today. I think most human beings
naturally conform, even if there isnt just one corporation,
even if there are a million corporations. In other words, conformity
is not just driven by how many companies there are and whos
controlling them, its driven by your individual search
for freedom.
Feder: Let me mention one last thing and
I think were honing in here on the point. There was an
article in the New York Times the other day (I think it was
in the Science Section), something people have been writing
about a lot, that it seems like its going to become possible,
because of scientific developments which are produced basically
by corporations that experiment with these types of things,
that sooner or later there wont be a question of aging
anymore; that people might even be able to live for who knows
how long, or forever.
Basically what theyre talking about is implanting
chips and replacement parts in peoples bodies for body
parts that wear outthey can do this even at birthso
that you wont wear those things out. Now, I dont
want to get into some weird area of conspiracy or control in
some way, but you know, if youre a corporate guy and youre
in control of some worldwide corporation that runs and sells
everything, you dont want people saying, I dont
think Ill buy that. Thats not economically
good. You want everyone to say, Ill buy that new
product and Im happy to have it. Why not just plant
the chip in there to begin with. Do you see what Im driving
at? The novels we were discussing, these were prophetic novels.
Jacobson: But Mike. The solution from my
point of view, the only answer to this, to rise above the fears,
is the soul, is G-d. It comes down to that. If ever there was
a time that we need G-d to be free, its now. Because once
upon a time, the battle was with evil forces that were oppressive.
They literally did not allow you to read what you wanted to
read, they did not allow you to pray as you wished to pray,
to educate your children as you wished. You couldnt move
about freely from place to place.
So today there is mind control in a very
powerful way, but the soul is free if it wants to be. And it
comes down to this. Ill take another scenario. Imagine
all these mega-mergers werent happening and there were
billions of companies, with everything being completely fragmented.
Do you think that human beings would be less conformist? Conformity
is still an individual choice, its the easy way out when
you dont have an identity.
Lets put it very simply: an identity crisis
is really the issue at hand. When your parents did not give
you an identity when you grew up because they didnt
have one, theyre insecure, and their insecurity was projected
upon you as a child, and you go out into a world and look for
your identity in a magazine, well, your identity depends on
what page youre looking at. Every ad has a different type
of identity. And youre in a world where there are a lot
of identity-less peoplewhats happening is that theres
no choice but to conform to the mass mentality because you want
to belong, you want to have some type of security.
Now we all know that security is a complete farce
because it gives you nothing: you have to play by the rules
and if you dont, youre out.
Its all the result of lacking security in
our individuality. I know why Im here. And I will use
AOL Time Warner products when I want to use them because they
benefit my individual search for meaning; for G-d.
If they dont, I wont buy their products.
And when youre intelligent and knowledgeable enough to
know how to pick knowledgeyou know, theres a thing
called objective knowledgewe have minds. The mind is supposed
to be a processor. So we can say, You know, Time Warner
is producing very good products, but some of them are complete
garbage. I dont want to see them; I dont want my
children to view them. There are other things that are very
good quality.
Its like going to a bookstore and buying
a book published, say by Random House, which publishes
I dont know how many books a year90% of which may
be pure trash from our perspective. But one book can be a really
good book.
Now, this has been the question about publishers
as well. Who decides what books should be published in America?
Its a few individuals, we know that.
Feder: Barnes & Noble.
Jacobson: Its a few individuals,
and money is a big factor, commercialization. I wrote a book
so Im very familiar with part of the business. Are the
best authors being published? Are the best people who can communicate
and share a message of hope for people today, fiction or non-fiction,
being published?
No, its whom you know. Its that mazal
thing, a matter of luck. If you met the right agent, the
right publisher, someone to really stand behind you. But to
just paint a negative picture of publishers that way doesnt
help anything, because were not going to change it. And
if you did change it, wed say, okay, instead of these
publishers, well appoint someone else. So they may be
even more corrupt. They may have even a lower common denominator
of what theyd decide to publish.
Feder: The British have this phrase called
a level playing field. And its not just an
upper-class comment, its a certain ethical construct.
For example, at the behest of a group of booksellers, the government
sued Barnes & Nobles and a bunch of publishers because they
found out that the major publishers were bribing Barnes &
Nobles with tens of thousands of dollars to place books that
they wanted to sell in front of the store and hide the other
books in the back someplace. And this was considered unfair.
From an economic point of view and from these
conglomerates points of view, youre saying that an individual
has to make choices all the time and be responsible. Correct.
Youre responsible for your own soul and for your own choices.
Yet if everything that comes into your five senses is so controlled,
it becomes even harder and more of a challenge than it ever
was to choose objectively what you really want. Would you agree?
Jacobson: Im glad you put it that
way. Regarding the five senses, yes. But you have something
thats beyond your five senses, and that nobody can give
you.
Feder: Or take away.
Jacobson: Exactly. And thats the
key to all this. We live in a sensory world, which means that
99.99% of our activities involves our sight, hearing, taste,
touch and smell. Thats how we relate empirically to this
tangible world.
But theres a super-sensory dimension, which
is who you are. Because remember, Mike, if you shut your eyes
now, and all the listeners can try that as an exercise at home
right now, if you shut your eyes and close your ears, and dont
use your senses of taste, touch and smell, what would be left?
So initially, the thought may be terrifying, because
you may think that you would disappear. But no. Do you know
what would be left? Your soul. Your individual you. The one
thats not controlled by Time Warner or AOL or by Microsoft,
or by anybody.
Feder: Ill bet if 99% of the people
listening right now did that right now, provided theyre
not in a car, they would become very scared and very confused.
Jacobson: Yes. But lets follow through.
We would become scared and confused because we are so accustomed
to these tools. But lets see what would happen for a moment.
Remember, you dont need eyes to see yourself and you dont
need ears to hear yourself, you dont need taste, touch
and smell to experience yourself. Theyre only really,
as its called in Jewish thought, gates between you and
the world around you.
You need eyes to see others or for them to see
you. You need ears to hear others or for them to hear you. Taste,
touch and smell are in the same category. What youre left
with is an individual personality, and the fear that youre
describing is that weve not been taught how to nurture
that part of ourselves. So we know how to nurture our eyes,
or at least thats whats being sold to us. Watch
this program. Read this magazine. Look at these pictures. Come
visit us here.
Were told what we should listen to. But
that tool that Ill call the spirit or the soul, that super-sensory
dimension, is something that no one really teaches us in a formal
way how to cultivate; not in education or at home. So what happens
is it gets lost in the shuffle.
But whats getting lost? You. The real you
is getting lost in the shuffle. Your eyes, ears and other senses
should only be enhancers of your individual experiences. Instead,
they become the end in itself. Its like the shovel being
more important than the hand using it. Or like the glove being
more important than the hand that goes in the glove, as if what
you see is more important than the essence of what you see.
And there becomes a divorce, a dichotomy, between
who you are and what you do and what youre involved in.
True, youre involved in what others are exposing you to.
If you want to entertain yourself on television, you dont
have a choice to watch what you like. There are only so many
programs, for good or for bad.
However, real freedom will never come through
your senses. Because lets say the programming on television
was top quality, excellent. Lets say, for some reason,
the most benevolent, spiritual person became the chairman of
this megacorporation. He or she still cannot give you your soul.
He can make sure that you have enough information to help you
choose, and its open enough and its not driven purely
by the lowest common denominator and sleaze and so on, but this
still cant give you your soul.
All he can give you are tools. Even in the best
scenario. And the way he gives you those tools is in the same
manner that a parent or a good educator gives a child tools
and says, Here are the tools, now you still have to discover
yourself. All I can give you is information.
Really I see this whole media world, weve
been calling it mega-corporations, as essentially tools. And
yes, the tool has become more important than the individual
and thats why we need to enter into a new age in which
the rules will be rewritten.
Because if people do reclaim their soul, and then
they see that television is superficial and not addressing their
inner needs, then they will have the option to tell you what
they want to see because they know what they want. But how many
people can say that they know what they want?
For example, if you took a poll and asked, What
would you like to see on Time Warner programming? so Mike
Feder would say one thing and Simon Jacobson would say another
thing, and Im sure every listener would say something
else. One would say, I want more wrestling, and this one would
say, no, I want more programming of another sort. But
it would all be based on previous paradigms, not on a new paradigm
of what do you want? What does your soul want? What do
you really want to see?
Feder: Lets take a break here, because
I think the merger of two powerful corporations, you and me
right now, have actually lost the individual listener in the
shuffle. So were going to see if the individual listener
is out there right now and ask that people call in so we can
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Okay, we have Gary from Brooklyn on the line.
Caller: I was at a meeting last night (I
live in Park Slope and they just opened up a Starbucks) and
this person was saying that instead of walking in Prospect Park
he feels this need to go into Starbucks. And I just think its
about consciousness raising which is what the Rabbi was saying.
We can make our individual choices and we dont need to
be manipulated by what we think is the latest fad and what we
think is going to soothe us.
Feder: So you have no fears about whats
going on? Your individual soul is intact and good shape for
you?
Caller: Well, I wouldnt say its
totally in shape, but I think that one has to be aware of ones
choices and just see through the illusions that are being sold
to us.
Jacobson: Its definitely true. Im
not in any way trying to minimize the challenges that arise
when companies and those who control programming and so on create
a culture that definitely makes it more difficult to discover
our individuality. Yet, that just accentuates the challenge
that lies before us as parents and educators of really looking
deeper into our own souls and finding a soul language. All these
tools and technology should simply serve our soul language.
Feder: And youre saying that one
day it willthat were on the verge of this?
Jacobson: Its going to have to happen,
because people are going to be terrified, as you voiced today,
and theres going to be a collision and an uproar. When
a paradigm changes, even when were still living by old
paradigm rules, the new paradigm dictates a change that
brings new rules. Thats the beauty, in a way, that ultimately
the truth will emerge, like what will work for people, or what
doesnt work.
Feder: Okay, we have a call from Shifra.
Caller: Hi, Rabbi. I was listening very
attentively since the very beginning, and my question is this.
As a lay person, and given this kind of pattern thats
happening, we as little people, I cant understand how
thats going to affect me. Could you give me an example?
When we speak about our neshamah, or our inner soul,
or to choose, the filtering down will be so subtle, how is this
going to affect the masses?
Jacobson: The point of this show has always
been how to develop tools to live a more meaningful life. We
have not been discussing on this show tonight exact ways how
to cultivate that soul, but I believe that when you focus in
on the type of self-discovery that you alluded to earlier, Mike,
that you matter, that youve been put here in this
world on a spiritual mission, to refine the world, to live it
differently in some small than how you came in, then when
you get in touch with that type of mission, that becomes a very
powerful force in your life. It becomes the most passionate,
compelling force. And you dont get swept away that quickly
by all these distractions. So thats a tangible way, when
a person gets in touch with it.
I believe that in our type of environment, theres
a great opportunity for a community of souls to commune with
each other. When you email your friend today, you have a choice
what you can email. You can email garbage and baloney, or you
can talk about something thats this type of soul language
weve been talking about.
Feder: So it always does come down to individual
responsibility.
Jacobson: It does. And this is part of
our choices. See, Im an optimist. I have faith in human
dignity, in the Divine image in which we were created. So I
believe that that Divine image will ultimately surface, despite
all the challenges.
And yes, with these mega-mergers, perhaps one
company will suddenly take over all of them because its
so wealthy, and this will suddenly wake everyone up. Not that
theres something essentially wrong with that merger, but
just a description of the current state of affairs. It will
just force us to take a look at ourselves in a new way.
Feder: Okay, we have Dalia on the line.
Caller: Good evening. Last night I was
driving down the BQE; I was really content and happy and my
soul was peaceful
Jacobson: On the BQE your soul was peaceful?
Caller: You know, contented. I was driving
and all of a sudden this huge McDonalds sign just popped
up. It was so bright. I felt like my energy was disrupted; I
started to feel violated. How can we protect ourselves from
things like that? That sign was so violating.
Feder: I am so glad you called, because
thats exactly what Im trying to express. Tell me,
how to you deal with the fact that its in your face and
in your ears, almost inside your brain every second?
Jacobson: Well Dalia, thats a great
question, whether its a McDonalds sign or some other
sign. Its not easy to answer but Im going to try
to put it in somewhat of a mystical context. If a soul, before
it came down to this earth, when G-d sent a soul into life on
earth, it could have been much easier for every one of our souls
to just live in a world where there were no McDonalds
and there were no billboards, and none of these huge corporations,
and then we wouldnt have this conversation altogether,
because the habitat would be one that was completely like a
womb, a womb-like environment.
We have to see (in your case the McDonalds
sign) as symbolic of the challenges of life in general. The
Bible puts it this way: that when the Scouts went into Israel
and saw what was going on they said, Its a land
that consumes its inhabitants. Because Dalia, if it wasnt
a McDonalds sign, it would be something else that violates
us.
We live in a materialistic world that is constantly
bombarding us with images and self-interest, trying to sell
us things. You noticed the McDonalds sign, but maybe you
dont notice those subtle colors and subliminal messages
in a department store, or in a supermarket, that cause you to
buy different brands, as they are able to affect us that way.
So were constantly bombarded, and I agree
that its a violation, but I think that at the same time
we have the power to not just withstand it, but to thrive. You
know, theres an analogy given for this: When water is
rushing down the river and you build a dam that in a sense is
resistance, the water just builds more pressure. So your sense
of violation and your outrage, and mine as well, should be translated
not into negative energy by sending sharp letters to our senators
or congressmen, but it should be translated into ways to reinforce
that serenity that you were experiencing. Not that you wont
notice the McDonalds sign next time, but youll see
it almost as being a catalyst for us to wake up, like a wake-up
call and seeing it as the challenge ultimately for our lives.
For instance, when your body beckons that youre
hungry, but you at that point want to meditate or you want some
spiritual serenity, you can say thats also a violation.
Not in the same way, obviouslya McDonalds sign is
the choice of a corporationbut its a violation because
our material body suddenly reminds us that you cant just
be a soul, you cant just be spiritual, you cant
just be spending time with your family all day because you have
to go to work to earn a living, you have to go out into the
world and face material challenges.
So lifes challenges can be seen as violations
or they can be seen as catalysts or challenges for us to rise
to the occasion, and they just reinforce us and make us stronger
spiritual people. Thats how I see it.
Feder: Okay, thanks for your call. And
stare straight ahead going down the BQEyou dont
have to look at that sign! We have individual rights.
Okay, next week our guest will be Stephen Dubner
who is the editor of Toward a Meaningful Life, the book
upon which this program is based. Stephen has written his own
book called Turbulent Souls. The topic will be, Can
Children Survive Parents Who Claim to Know the Absolute Truth?
We have David on the line.
Caller: I enjoy your show very much and
I just wanted to respond to Dalia who called before. I think
we have to be careful to realize that the reactions that people
have to these signs or symbols can vary from one individual
to another. For example, she was offended by the sign, but its
possible that somebody else who may have been driving all night
and is hungry sees that sign and is thrilled by it! So I think
that at the same time we are trying to criticize these large
corporations for being impersonal, we also have to realize that
our own feelings may not be universal for everybody else.
Feder: Excellent point, David.
Jacobson: A very excellent point. And I
think in all fairness, to myself and to you Mike and to the
callers, were definitely not preaching any type of excessive
extremes that we should destroy all corporations; destroy all
companies. Because in the big picture, the fact is that the
standard of living is a higher one, this country is experiencing
a period of prosperity, there are comforts that we have that
you and I, Mike, continuously benefit from. So I dont
think that were talking about extremes, were talking
about the elusive balance of individuality in the face of mass
production. There arent too many people who are going
to consider the Industrial Revolution a curse. The curse develops
if it becomes excessive, if it depersonalizes us. But as I stated
earlier, before the Industrial Revolution, before there was
mass production, it was easier to hold onto your individuality,
because your home was more significant, your community
Feder: Well, there was more space, more
privacy
Jacobson: But at the same time, the Industrial
Revolution, like anything in science and technology (as I write
in my book Toward a Meaningful Life) is essentially neutral
like a kitchen knife. Is a kitchen knife healthy or destructive?
It depends what you use it for. Its the same with atomic
energy; its the same with computers. The same with any
type of tool.
Its unbelievable today how medical breakthroughs
can save lives. Yet theres always that fear of genetic
manipulation, of going too far, starting to play G-d. So our
show is dedicated to trying to make us aware of the challenges
and in addition to try to find the balance. So Davids
point is really well taken, and Dalias point as well.
We live in a world where there is a duality, a
tension between matter and spirit, and that battle is pronounced
when there is a merger like AOL Time Warner, because we suddenly
see how powerful thats becoming. So what we have to figure
out is how to counter that with an equally powerful spiritual
response.
Feder: On an individual or a collective
level?
Jacobson: Individual, because collectively
we dont trust any one group to suddenly define how to
discover your soul, or else it will become another corporation.
Feder: But with all due respect to the
historical antecedents of America, Ben Franklin said if we all
dont hang together, well all hang separately. So
in fact its all very nice to be individually concerned
and to look inside ourselves, but if we dont join together
with that message to them, then maybe nothing will come of it
either.
Jacobson: Correct. And I think that the
challenge really is on an individual basis, ultimately. Its
very hard to speak to groups about this. You can speak to groups
but you want to speak to individuals and say, Look, take
control of your life. Take control of your soul; take control
of your heart. What enters it is up to you. You dont have
to be a victim just because the television is producing all
kinds of programming, it doesnt mean you have to sit and
watch it all day.
Im not defending inferior type of programming,
dont get me wrong. Its not like the same statement
that you hear, where the people who are producing this kind
of low common denominator programming say, Its your
choice to shut it off. Theyre feeding into that
part of human beings. Thats not what Im saying.
Im speaking to individuals, as individuals,
that you have to take control. Remember, your life begins with
your soul. And your body and what it listens to and what it
reads and what it watches
Feder: What it eats
Jacobson: What it eats, what it consumes
The saying goes, You are what you eat. You also
assume what you consume. We can coin that here!
Feder: Well, I think that was a pretty
good running jump at the problem. You cant solve these
huge issues obviously in a brief span of time, but it was a
good discussion.
Jacobson: Oh, I thought we were going to
solve it here once and for all and retire.
Feder: One big merger and that would be
the end of everything, right? Okay, so you have been listening
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Weve said about everything there is to say,
but maybe you have one more comment to make. Were struggling
around in this big, mass-conglomerated world. What do we do
as individuals tonight, this evening, when we turn off the radio?
Jacobson: Well its interesting. We
use radio. I dont know if theis radio station is owned
in some way by Time Warner.
Feder: Could be.
Jacobson: That would be interesting. I
think it goes back to basics, which sounds so simple, but at
the same time so difficult, so elusive, which is maybe to try
tonight to shut your eyes and ears, taste, touch and smell,
before you go to sleep (dont read a newspaper, turn off
the TV) and focus in on the soul that you have. Put yourself
to sleep knowing that you can begin ushering in this new age,
instead of a materialistic age, a spiritual age in your own
personal life. It all begins with a microcosm. You know, Mike,
if one person can do it, ten people can. If ten people can do
it, a thousand people can. And if you get small groups
I think you have to look at yourself and ask How can I
recapture my soul? What can I do to feed and nourish my soul?
And the basic elements are essentially three pillars that the
Torah always teaches us will nurture our soul. Number one is
through knowledge, through study. Dedicate a time to study,
focus in on understanding what a soul is, what your purpose
is, meaningful study. The second thing is prayer, which is more
of an emotional type of meditation. And finally good deeds,
implementing and concretizing it in actual good deeds of kindness
to strangers or to people you know.
Some of us are very good to strangers and terrible
to our own close ones. Some of us are the other way around.
Go against the grain of your habits and just extend yourself.
Those things nourish your soul. Believe it or
not, these simple things actually feed your soul; theyre
not just the right thing to do. And they make your soul stronger
and build your immune system to handle the McDonalds signs
and AOL Time Warner mergers, and so on.
I just want to say on a personal note, Im
always very excited to do a show with you, Mike, particularly
a topic like this which touches on a contemporary issue, and
I look forward to doing many more shows with you. Im also
particularly excited about next weeks show with Stephen
Dubner. I have a personal relationship with him and well
be talking a little about his background. He was born to two
Jewish parents who converted to Catholicism before he was born
and he has returned to his Judaism. I hope everyone tunes in.
Feder: Okay. Thank you very much.
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